because we cannot foresee the consequences of the decision..
If we were to know the consequences..
Life would be easier right?
But, life is never easy..
Always..
we make decision base on our self interest..
which is best benefit self..
we will tend to choose that decision..
this is the norm~
I used to be making decision base on majority interest..
As time goes by~
I realize that people do not actually care about you have done and think that you are obligated to help them..
I do not have a Buddha's heart and this change me into more self-conscious person..
I understand that we should help people without asking back anything..
I did..
instead of not getting back anything..
i got worst~
so should one be so kind till letting people taking everything for granted?
dilemma much
one be kind to people 100 times but did not get back any thank you
one be mean to people 1 time and get all the hatred forever..
do u even consider that fair?
As i have said..
Life ain't easy..
should i be more firm or just try to keep quiet and keep everyone happy?
